I've held off on writing about this for quite some time, but have now decided to share. My hope is that our journey might shed some light for others. What we do or don't may or may not change the outcome but we are willing to try.
This is Karley's story:
Prior to two, her wasn't growing and we were giving it time. Henry's hair was much like Karley's but then after two, his hair was growing normally. We waited with Karley until after she was two. We saw little growth but didn't do anything about it, but it was always in the back of my mind. {When I say normally, I mean approximately a half inch a month.}
Then she turned three. We heard a lot of, "oh, will grow, give it time", "She's fine, it will grow." Just prior to her starting school, I really wanted answers. I started googling and came up with Short Anagen Hair Syndrome. As a hair stylist, I'd never heard of it, nor had I seen anybody who mirrored Karley. A few clicks, an even better understanding of hair, and finally a facebook page for Short Anagen / Loose Anagen Hair, I knew that's what she had. There are many girls who look very very similar to Karley.
Short Anagen Hair Syndrome ~ is a condition where hair does not grow beyond a short length, due to an unusually short duration of active hair growth (anagen phase). Most cases are associated with fine blond hair.
I talked with her pediatrician, {who was one in the camp of, "it will grow"}, had never heard of SAS. I was referred to a dermatologist office. Since I was pretty confident that her hair had a short anagen life, I didn't see a reason to go to a specialist but did request somebody who was familiar with children.
Pretty much one look and the Dermatologist confirmed her to having Short Anagen Hair. She also has some scalp condition {like cradle cap} but that wasn't the cause but certainly wasn't helping any new hair growth. She gave me some tar shampoo and that was it. There is also a condition very similar called Loose Anagen Hair Syndrome but we didn't feel this was Karley's case as her hair doesn't come out easily when pulled. We have Sophie to thank for this confirmation.
There isn't a cure for SAS.
I reported back to her Pediatrician and left the facebook group. I was heartbroken. I didn't want to be reminded of this. We see our daughter for how beautiful she is and as parents hope to help her see her inner beauty that shines tremendously. But, in the back of my head, I hear people throughout my life speak about this or that person who has "two hairs on their head", "doesn't have any hair", etc all in a negative fashion, {like the person could help it?}. I remember sitting with a group of women telling them about my daughter, then they start talking negatively about older girls who, blah, blah blah. I cringe. I hear this as my baby.
Karley starts school, we move on. Until recently when we've noticed her interested in hair. She pets her cousins pony tails, she hand brushes her sister's hair and she hand brushes her own hair, in what looks like hopes of it being longer. All the while, never saying a word. My husband and I just exchange looks of sadness for a little girl who would love piggy tails.
I re-join the facebook group. This time I see a few people talk of a Gluten Free diet.
Part Two can be read here
In Christ,
Tina

So sorry to hear that she has SAS . . but she is so beautiful! I am interested in hearing about if the gluten free diet works!
ReplyDeleteThanks Katie! I will update on how it's going.
DeleteWhat a fantastic mother Karley has, to be so diligent in finding out everything possible!
ReplyDeleteThanks Cari.....we'll see how fantastic I am when I say no to pizza!
DeleteNever hurts to try the gluten free diet, a wish and hug for lil karley bug from us.
ReplyDeleteThe 'settes
Thanks Mrs 'Sette! And thanks for all the grocery store tips!!
DeleteHugs, Tina! I'm glad you shared. Our worlds of experience are so small and being allowed to understand the struggles of others is a gift.
ReplyDeleteKarley is beautiful!
The main reason why I shared was because there really isn't anything out there unless you find the facebook group. For other moms to be able to connect or just help in general.
DeleteThanks for all the tips Katie and congrats on your new baby!
Haven't stopped thinking about you since we talked yesterday...so interested in what you find out next week. Love you - Holly
ReplyDeleteThanks for all your help with everything Holly! Mostly, thanks for listening to me work through all of this!
DeleteKarley is a beautiful little girl regardless! I met a girl who had LAH growing up. I can understand why it hurts so much to see it. It's good to see though that you and your husband are aware of it. I hope you'll post the rest of the story.
ReplyDeleteBlessings and hugs!
Deborah
Thanks Deborah....we think she's a gem! I don't really even notice until I notice. She is beautiful!
DeleteThanks for your support!
Nice to have answers. You are such an awesome mom to look into alternative options to help your kids along the way! Excited to hear how the "diet" works. God Bless.
ReplyDeleteWe have a diagnosis and pray the gluten free gives answers. It will take time. :) Thanks for the suggestions and e-mails you have sent Jo!
DeleteShe looks so cute with short hair! My niece who was diagnosed with Celiac's disease lost her hair before the diagnosis...but she was also vomiting and losing weight too. I would try the gluten-free diet though so at least you can say you tried it. Thank goodness it isn't anything life threatening, and they make such adorable headbands now, she can always look fashionable and girly :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Colleen! I am grateful she doesn't have Celiac Disease and that they are so many options out there. We love headbands and small clips! :)
DeleteShe is so incredibly beautiful, with short hair or NO hair. I'm so sorry that you've had the misfortune of dealings with people who focus on outer beauty. As you know, the Lord cherishes our heart, not our hair, and I know you will raise Karley up to believe that too. I'm praying for strength for you Tina, as I know it's so hard for a mama to think of their little one being teased, as the world can be so mean. But I know God gave her you as a mama for a reason, and He will equip you with just the right words to say, hugs to provide, and wisdom to impart to raise a girl who is so much more than the hair on her head. Love and hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteWe just found out today that our 5 year old daughter has SAS. We have been told (like everybody else) that her hair will grow, and not to worry about it. Finally, I had enough and wanted an answer. Little did I know that I would be COMPLETELY blind sided and find out my daughter has SAS. WOW! That was the only thing I could think about at the exact moment. The doctor had to have thought I was the craziest person in the world from the tears streaming from my face. AS my beautiful little girl looked at me and asked, "Mommy, why are you crying?" My only response was, "Because Mommy is silly." She is (for now) content with the hair that she does have, and I plan to leave it that way. Every now and then I will hear a little comment from her, and I just smile and tell her that it's because she has such beautiful curls :). I am at a complete loss as to what to do at this moment. The dermatologist told me to start Rogaine. Not sure when I will.. like I said, for now, why clue her in on what's going on when she is happy. I would like to join the fb group.. but can't seem to find it. GF sounds like an awful lot of work :/. I know by the grace of God I can do it, but it's going to be hard. I am at a loss as to where to even begin to start with that??? Thank you for starting this blog! It feels great to know I am not the only one with a little beauty queen that has short hair :)
ReplyDeleteHello Tina,
ReplyDeleteI am so glad I read this. Your story sounds a lot like mine. I have a 3 year old with SAS and an almost 2 year who doesn't. I showed her a picture of your daughter and she said "she looks like me!". Her dermatogist said that she has a lot of little, mostly blonde girls with SAS, and she she's the hair really start to grow at about the age of 5 or 6. Have you heard otherwise? Thank you for sharing your story.
Hi Kristy,
DeleteThank you for taking the time to comment. My daughter has said that same thing when she sees other girls!
From what I can tell, in my humble opinion, LAS girls seem to grow out of this around 6 or puberty. I am not so sure about SAS. We'll see based on our own cutie! :) I also think the LAS girls have more results with gluten free.
Tomorrow {2/15} marks one month of gluten free for us. I'll take pictures and we can all take a look and see what has happened or not over the last month.
God Bless,
Tina